The Mailer Review/Volume 6, 2012/Gore and Norman in Provincetown: Difference between revisions

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In the fall of 2002, my wife Donna and I were living in Provincetown, and Gore Vidal was coming to town. I was editing a collection of Mailer’s letters and Vidal was a major presence in them. We had also heard a lot of talk at the Mailer dinner table about both the iniquities of Gore, and his acts of generosity. [[Norris Church Mailer|Norris Mailer]] seemed to have a soft spot for Vidal. The relationship of Norman and Gore went back to 1952. Within minutes of their first meeting, Vidal asked Mailer at what ages his grandparents had died. Mailer told him, and Vidal then proclaimed that he would outlive him, based on the longevity of his own. Neither of them ever forgot this conversation.

When Mailer was released from Bellevue in 1961 after wounding his second wife, Adele, with a penknife, Vidal was one of the first of their circle to invite the Mailers for a visit, an act that touched Mailer. They saw a good deal of each other in the 1960s and remained friends, although they occasionally sniped at each other in interviews and on talk shows — both were regular guests on the talk show circuit. In a 1971 ''New York Review of Books'' essay, Vidal equated Mailer and Henry Miller with Charles Manson as consummate sexists — “the 3M Man.” Mailer was furious, and butted Vidal’s head in the green room before their appearance on the Dick Cavett Show, but Vidal was the tactical winner when they traded insults an hour later on the program. In 1977, Mailer bounced a booze-filled glass off Vidal’s noggin at a New York cocktail party as Jackie Kennedy watched. Vidal said later, “Again, words fail Norman Mailer.”

They had no contact until 1985 when Mailer needed Vidal’s help raising money to underwrite a meeting in New York of P.E.N, the international writers’ organization. Vidal graciously accepted, and shared the stage with Mailer. A few years later when Vidal reprinted the offending essay, he removed the reference to the “3M Man.” They were on good, but still slightly edgy terms, from that point on. Mailer needed him again in 2002 for a benefit in support of the Provincetown Repertory Theater. Gore knew the town, having escorted Jackie Kennedy (with whom he shared a stepfather) there in 1963 so that she could observe the town that Mailer called “the wild west of the east.” He accepted the invitation immediately. Norris thought Gore might be trying to make it up to Mailer for the “3M” essay.

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