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{{ins|All right, if}} everybody is both male and female, heterosexual and homosexual—a commonplace—{{del|but}}what isn’t realized is that there are two kinds of sexual people—those who are essentially bi-sexual, and those whom I will call uni-sexual. Bi-sexuals make long clinging imaginative love passages, wanderings, where the orgasm is merely {{del|the}}{{ins|a}} regretted terminus rather than {{del|the}}{{ins|a}} climax. Uni-sexuals make short love, be it cold or hot, love which is harsh, active, emotional, rigorous, and oriented to climax. Analysts generally would call unisexuals healthy, bi-sexuals unhealthy, but I wonder. Because bi-sexuals are more developed and their lovemaking is a more painful but richer playing out of the {{del|homeodynamic-sociostatic}}{{ins|id-superego}} conflict. Unisexuals have habits which enable them to suppress {{del|one or the other}}{{ins|id-superego}}. So {{del|they are either}}{{ins|whether}} potent or frigid, {{del|but it}}{{ins|love}} is over quickly and the{{del|ir}} mind {{del|go into}}{{ins|of the unisexual is in}} hibernation {{ins|while loving}}. The bisexual is stimulated, frightened, is at the edge of the mystery, is frustrated, comes back, flees, sweats cold, loses him or herself, has a great thought or perception, feels love, loses love, chases it again, and so forth.

{{del|Now to the difference of male and female components in uni-sexual and bi-sexuals.}} The unisexual is all male or all female on the surface. Underneath, and deeply buried except as they reveal themselves in their ''habits'' is the reverse. So, a woman {{del|of the}} uni-sexual {{del|variety}} is apparently feminine, calm, capable, good housewife, efficient, motherly, light on make-up, likes the short brisk act, and {{del|is drawn}}{{ins|acts}} unconsciously toward other women and {{del|her male partner}}{{ins|men}} as a male. The unisexual male if he is nominally heterosexual and healthy is aggressive toward women in an easy way, has short quick {{del|fucks}}{{ins|acts}}, is decisive, executive, athletic, and is unaware of the woman in him, although he is subject to sudden aggressive and passive homosexual panics and indeed even actions. {{ins|More powerful men reduce him to a psychic jelly.}}

Bisexuals are much more consciously aware of the male and female in them. They are therefore anxious, “sex-obsessed,” orgiastic, and…stable. Because whether they make love to a man or a woman the man-and-woman in the bi-sexual makes love to the woman-and-man in the partner. There is always a quartet going on. {{del|Every time}}{{ins|Even if}} a bi-sexual {{del|fucks even}}{{ins|makes love}} with a unisexual there is an orgy—at least three people are present and one is watching (the unisexual’s buried self). Therefore, the bi-sexual may appear to have a great variety {{del|and questing}} in the choice of partners but the bi-sexual is essentially making love always to the same partner—{{ins|partners!}}—{{del|but}}{{ins|yet}} deepening the act by experience. Unisexuals are much more subject to real sexual anxiety attacks because the anxiety is more buried and the action is more compulsive. {{ins|The bi-sexual is thus more “cool.”}}

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Lipton’s Journal/January 24, 1955/253 - Revision history

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